Why Am I So Horny?

Do you ever find yourself looking at a banana and getting wet? Or is it that you have been inexplicably horny lately? There’s no need to worry, there can be a number of reasons behind it. Listed in this article are some reasons for your being horny all the time, followed by ways to curb it. 

What is too horny?
If you’re in your twenties, you’re most likely to be on that stage where anything, absolutely anything can get you going. The sight of men, their torsos, anything at all. Any form of physical contact might have you getting all hot.
Finding yourself dry humping with your pillow in the middle of the night might get you to wondering if it is more than merely psychological. Now that you’re looking for some answers, here are some possible reasons that could be behind your seemingly never-ending feeling of arousal-

1) Hormones
The hormones are to blame. And this is going to keep happening over and again, until you age to being about 50 years old, after which things only go downhill. Hormones play a major role in controlling your sex drive. Even though we have made it past that stage of life, we all remember how sexually frustrating our teenage years could get. 
The sudden rise in sexual energy, especially before your menstrual cycle, could be because of elevated levels of hormones like estrogen and testosterone at the time of ovulation. In times like these, in order to feel better, sex is highly recommended. 
In case you are not on your period, it could be because of a rise in the testosterone levels in the body, or if you are using hormonal birth controls, or if you are pregnant. Oh, well.

2)Aphrodisiac Food
People say that you will have better sex if you eat healthy, and they are right. Feeling bloated, constipated or lethargic isn’t going to help you in wanting to have sex. It could become a total cockblock instead. So all this horny behaviour, it could be a result of the food you are eating. 
The culprit here is aphrodisiac food. Food, that increases your libido. For instance, you could very easily find yourself horny after eating half a dozen bananas, thanks to their penis-like shape. Maybe time for a change in diet.
Here are some aphrodisiac food that you might want to avoid:
  • Almonds
  • Avocado
  • Banana
  • Blackberries
  • Broccoli
  • Celery
  • Garlic
  • Mango
  • Oatmeal
  • Watermelon
  • Sesame Seeds

    3)Chemical Influences
    Even though most of the times it's the hormones that are to blame, sometimes it’s chemical influence at play. You might have noticed yourself getting a bit hot after downing a couple of drinks. Chemical influence sheds off our inhibitions, letting us feel more relaxed.
    Ever wondered why a certain scent from a perfume or lotion coming off of someone gives you lewd thoughts? Chemicals intensify how we perceive things around us. Drugs too can influence the sex drive of a person.

    4)New relationships
    The beginning of all relationships are the best part- that time period of time when you just can’t keep your hands off each other. It’s the time when the sparks are flying and the sexual energy is at peak. It seems simply impossible to not have sex right away. We have all been there.
    It is kind of like being high on some really good drugs- you just can’t get yourself to think straight, you laugh all the time, everythings looks good.
    What might work in this case, would be to break up with your boyfriend. Sounds crazy, but works.
5)Small things
Sometimes the answer lies in the smallest of details. For instance, getting horny upon smelling some guy’s countryside-like cologne is common. Or simple touches, brushing against someone, looking at someone attractive, getting checked out by someone, seeing anything that can be associated with sex, and so on. However, sometimes the reason is not that obvious and needs to be figured out instead. In such cases, to find out what has got you going, you need to think of the last thing you were doing before you started feeling aroused. Think of the circumstances at the time and you will find the agent that turned you on. 

How to stop being horny all the time
To anyone who hasn’t been there yet, it would seem that being horny all the time would be rather enjoyable, but trust us, it gets old really quickly. Apart from getting frustrating, it also takes a toll on daily life things and a person’s relationships. Guys, without a doubt love having sex. But not continuously for hours and consecutive days, they too need their time off. So, here is what you need to do to get your libido under control-

1)Having regular sex
Well, feeling horny all the time and doing nothing about it is not going to work. Your system too needs relief from all the stress and hormones that you have been holding back along with your sexual tension. So go find yourself a partner. It doesn’t even have to be anything serious, as long as it keeps you sated, it’s all good. 

2)Work out
When having sex is not an option, you might want to consider the good old exercise. It will be a good way relaxing and relieving the stress although it involves less pleasure. Get your gym gear ready, grab a bottle of water and off you go.

3)Masturbation
You don’t always need someone around to get off. A good vibrator is all it’s going to take to reach that much needed orgasm. As long as you are comfortable and in the mood for it, it hardly matters what you use to get off. A picture, a video, a toy, it could be anything. Self loving is the best form of loving, indeed.

Now that you know what has been keeping you so damn horny all the time, you can do something to curb your sexual needs and live freely again. More power to you, girl!