How to finger yourself
Before you get involved into twin sharing, you should learn how to treat yourself. That way, when it’s his turn to show some pleasure, you’ll know how to direct him down to valley.
Everyone likes the idea of having full-fledged sex as opposed to just masturbating. But it’s quite normal that everyone goes through some dry spells as well. During those times, you should be able to make some self-love and move on smartly. I mean, if you don’t know how to finger and love yourself then your partner will not know either. He may also come as off as you.
Finger yourself the very right way
Whether you’re still a pristine virgin or really experienced, it’s always delicious to enjoy some solo sex. But if you’re stuck with nothing but your vibrator then don’t worry! Below we have some tips on how to properly finger yourself properly.
Clean your hands. Mostly, in movies, the girl is lying on her bed and suddenly she gets an undeniable urge to masturbate. But, do you realize, how much bacteria a cell phone carries?
We totally get that when you’re completely in the moment, you would not want to even quickly run and wash your hands. That may frustrate you and the other person. But, getting an STD may frustrate you even more. Your vagina is not less than a holy temple, so just make an extra step save you from bad bacteria.
#2 Hygiene! Madame! Aside from just washing your hands, you will want to make sure that your hygiene is at right place. Also, Make sure your fingernails are clean as a lot of bacteria nestle beneath them.
Apart from that, making sure that your vagina is clean and fresh is always good. Getting an infection is quite a turn-off. When you masturbate with a clean and fresh vagina, it’s just so smooth and erotic.
#3 You don’t have to start with your vagina. When you turn yourself on, you don’t have to reach and grab your vaginal lips. Also, do not get target your clitoris like a bull’s eye. You can also start with some self foreplay. In fact you can rub and squeeze your breasts to feel sexy. You can also suck on your fingers and then slowly move towards touching your vagina. Do not return without touching your vaginal canal!
Women take quite longer to get turned on. So make your schedule before a holiday and take your time warming up the body. Why not explore your own body and find newer ways to reach to your vagina. Masturbation is not about just about your vagina and finger rolls. It is about getting there with different directions.
#4 Find a safer and worryless place: Masturbating when your cousin is lying beside you can be little risky. She may just wake suddenly and notice the movement around your vaginal area. You want to masturbate wildly sometimes, when you’re actually in a safer space. Get on some music or any of your favorite movies – which turns you on. This is completely your time to dive into some pleasure. Make your own alterations and enjoy the dessert.
#5 Come on! Involve your toys in. If you’re trying to actually learn about your body, we wouldn’t recommend using toys just like that. Take the complete time to figure out how to orgasm with the help of your fingers. Once you’ve mastered that, then use toys to enhance the pleasure. Vibrators and dildos will work.
#6 Caress your clit a bit more: When you finger yourself, you’ll want to caress your clitoris. Take your fingers and insist moves like up and down or side-to-side. Personally, mostly, up and down works the best.
#7 Slide your fingers in. You can straightaway slide either one finger initially or two fingers along. Bend them a bit more, as this way, they will rub against your wall giving you more stimulation. It’ll feel just too great, and you’ll have even a higher chance of hitting your G-spot.
#8 Find your G-spot. Trust us, you’ll know within you when you found your G-spot. The g-spot is 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina. Usually, it’s on the front wall. It is will feel like a rough patch and that’s your holy grail. The g-spot can give you a really intense orgasm – why wouldn’t you want that?
#9 Stimulate the holy-grail. When you figure out how to finger yourself, this is actually the best part. Once you get to your g-spot, play around with your own speed. Build up a friction to create orgasm.
Some women describe this feeling as being hot. Something like being flushed completely. You may not necessarily achieve an orgasm, but the sensation in itself is mind-blowing.
#10 Slowly build up to an orgasm. You won’t achieve an orgasm just with the snap of a finger. You will need to build up to it. Eventually, you make yourself wet and then work it out. It’s a process worth exploring. You can finger yourself even rougher. However, if you think that fingering yourself for just two-three minutes will do it, it won’t.
#11 Don’t change positions too much. This may take some extra time, but you’ll need to figure out what position really helps. You get to an orgasm when you finger yourself. If you’re very close to orgasming, just do not shift into any other position. It will ruin your mood and the hype.
If you are finished masturbating, don’t rush to just grocery shopping or any other work. Take your time to just chill and reflect on how you just pleased yourself. A quickie is just irreplaceable fun, but you certainly don’t have to rush the whole time.
Why not just dim the lights off, play some music on, flat lie on your bed and get some time exploring how to finger yourself, slow or fast? Masturbation fun yet educational. Who would deny this?