How to Attract Men

Girls, you can attract men and make them desire you instantly for which there is an evolutionary secret. And the real secret's right here.

The science of attraction between the sexes, as complicated as it may seem, is pretty simple to explain in a few lines. Healthy and stress-free guys are easily and more attracted by girls. He should have a good level of testosterone which makes him appear manlier and chiselled and has a protective streak in him which makes him a good mate material and a father.

Guys, on the other hand, are more easily attracted to girls based on their appearance or behaviour. But that's not it though. To truly understand how to attract men and how a man's mind works, we need to get deeper into the concept of attraction from the male point of view.

How to attract men in a way they can't resist
Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you're chasing after him, you're taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key and keep him on the edge of his seat. Maintain your composure. Your outward indifference may make him want you more.

Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is letting them figure you out. Don't talk his ear off about every detail of your life or your feelings. Avoid idle gabbing in your talks and select carefully what you say to keep other's attention in focus. Also, don't make yourself available all the time. Allow him to wonder where you are and what you're doing.

Display intelligence and depth. Don't say "like" and "um" in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. Wherever she is, a smart woman knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. This will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.

Be fun, in ways that men think are fun. It is a simple rule of attraction, but even though it is simple,  many girls get it wrong. Don't be too much of a stereotypical "girl." Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He's not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened on last week's episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars with him. He'll want you even more.

Take care of your appearance. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn't. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. In case if your breath is not fresh while talking to a guy, you will be discarded straight-away. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

Dress to kill. The dress that you wear should be attractive and sexy and should catch anybody's attention. Your dress should be perfectly feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right without too much exposure. Use the colours red or pink to your advantage; remember, all men are very visual.

Flirt with body language. Lean in close to him when you talk. Touch his hand or shoulder during the conversation. Smile and be genuinely interested in what he has to say. Be sure that in proximity turn your body toward him. Don't make these flirting techniques over-exaggerated and noticeable, however. Let your natural flirtatiousness shine.

A guy may like a girl for different reasons, but when it comes to the physical or sexual attraction, at first sight, her physical appearance and her behaviour matters more than anything else. So if you want to attract a man and make him desire you, you just need to get his attention the right way. And the rest, as they say, is history! You need to keep this in mind though; love and attraction are two completely different things. A guy may find you extremely attractive, yet he may not end up falling in love with you for his own reasons. You need to build up the sexual attraction for love to blossom in the first place and make him fall in love with you. It's the safest way to make sure the guy falls for you and stays in love with you. 

Attraction and how a man views a woman's body
You have to understand what a guy's mind tells him when he sees you and sizes you up as we all know that physical attraction plays a very big part in attracting a guy. When a guy sees a girl's physical assets, he subconsciously sees more than just your breasts or your butt. She should appear healthy and has come of age with the right curves in all the right places. Her body can afford to waste energy on developing her curves which play the biggest role in sexual attraction. A guy may think a girl is attractive. However she looks, he will be gauging you as the woman who may carry his offspring one day in his subconscious mind. 

Testosterone and a man's sexual preference
Every man produces testosterone, a sex hormone, in his testes. And women produce a small amount of testosterone in their ovaries. The more testosterone a man produces, the more manly he looks and the more sexually virile he is. His facial features appear manlier, his jaws are wider and more chiselled and his voice is deeper. And several studies have shown that the more manly a man is, the more attracted he'd be to women who exhibit feminine traits girlie, cute traits.

Women who are less feminine with exerting more control and dominance are attracted by a small percentage of men who produce a lesser-than-normal amount of testosterone.

So if you're trying to catch the attention of a typical guy a large percentage of men have normal or high production of testosterone even though the overall average testosterone levels have dropped significantly in American men over the last 50 years, chances are, he'd love you if your behaviour is more feminine, cute and girly! 

The perfect woman for a real man – She's cute and sexy
A regular man who isn't suffering from low testosterone would always find a feminine woman more attractive than a woman who thinks femininity is overrated and displays traits that are traditionally considered manly. While a girl's physical appearance is the biggest sign of femininity, at times, it helps if you can display more femininity in your behaviour

Why do guys like cute girls?
Men have always been the more aggressive sex in the human species. They're usually the ones who spread their legs wider, stand tall and swell their chest up while trying to appear threatening all the time, more so when they're in an argument or when they meet someone they see as a threat in any manner.

But cute changes everything. When a girl behaves in a cute and feminine manner, it brings out the protective instincts of a man. Instead of feeling threatened by a feminine girl, he feels protective of her. That makes him feel more masculine, and that's something every guy loves to feel.

When a girl reveals her vulnerable side to a guy, it's very hard for any guy to ignore her or avoid noticing her vulnerability. And the instant his mind connects with her vulnerability, it eliminates any thoughts of a threat and his protective side creates a bond of protection and attachment with her.

He feels the need to be around her, and his subconscious mind tries very hard to make her feel protected, comfortable and loved him. He loses his aggressive stance, the tone of his voice softens down, and his shoulders droop down towards her instead of spreading wide. And before he even gives the attraction a second thought, he'd realize that he likes the girl already! 

How to bring out your feminine side naturally
Femininity comes naturally. But cuteness can be created by the way you behave. Additionally, if you're on a date with a guy and want to come across as a girl who's in touch with her femininity, here are a couple of tips for you.

#1 Dress in softer pastel colours like peach or mauve. The colour will give your skin tone a healthy glow that makes you look warm and likeable instantly.

#2 Smile more often. A smile can make you appear more pleasant and friendly.

#3 Run your fingers through your hair delicately. Always works for any guy!

#4 Tip your head slightly downwards when you're blushing or smiling, and look at him from under your eyebrow.

These four tips may sound bizarre for a feminist or a cute-bashing girl, but trust me, it will do wonders for your date.